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Very simply, swagger is how a person presents themself to the world, the ability to handle a situation with calm and an uncanny grace. The ability to maintain a good level of self-confidence without seeming arrogant. The apparent effortlessness to this person’s style, the way they dress, walk and talk. A person with swagger is not very easily upset by anyone or anything.

Even a person whose nature goes contrary to the definition of swagger can apply the elements of a person who embodies swagger to their own persona. It is not necessary to become the very definition of swagger, mind you, but adding a little something extra to your personality can only help you in the long run. When you do become the definition of swagger itself, you will realize that you probably had a lot inside of you all along, but just didn’t know how to fully develop it.

Someone with swagger never tries to pretend to know something that they don’t. For what purpose? These people understand that in order to be a interesting conversationalist, they should only speak fluently about the things that they actually do know and that they should ask questions about what they don’t. By doing this, they avoid being found to be a fake, which is opposite of true swagger.

Literally and figuratively, a person that is the definition of swagger gives others space! Nothing is more annoying than being over-crowded by someone. Annoying is a trait that is very far from swagger. A close talker simply is not a person of swagger, the reason for this is that they make others feel uneasy. A person with true swagger gives people room, they refrain from warming a person’s face with their breath, regardless of how nice their breath might be. No one should be subjected to accidental spittle!

This type of person is able to “slow the moment” in their head, whatever the case may be. This means that no matter the situation that arises, they keep their head about them. They are never panicked. They are able to take control of a situation when it is needed. They are able to follow the lead of someone capable of leading if it is needed as well. They don’t let the emotions of others escalate their emotions. They remain steady and do not cry over spilled milk.

Nothing goes more contrary to the definition of swagger than a disrespectful person. A person with swagger treats everyone with respect. They do not talk down to those serving or working for them, such as employees, waiters/waitresses, bartenders, etc. A person with swagger also tips appropriately and avoids behaving like a cheap-skate.

This type of person often has an element of mystery to them as well, which is intriguing. Their charm is enforced because they keep themselves looking nice and stylish and are successful communicators. One who possesses swagger tries to make others around them feel good too. This quality makes the person a desirable person in so many ways. People love to be in their presence, because they are fun, full of charisma, and pleasantly different.

A person who embodies swagger, does not waste time arguing with fools. This is key to maintaining any swagger they may possess. An intelligent debate with another person makes for good conversation and stimulates the brain. But arguing with a fool, even when the person of swagger is 100% correct, makes them both look like fools. People looking on will not be able to tell the difference. A fool is a person who is overly loud, vulgar, substitutes intellect and communication skills with profanity. From such a person, a person with swagger will take their leave immediately and with no regrets.